A new, toxic legalism, based on a shallow, piecemeal, combative reading of the scriptures, is choking the Evangelical faith like a clinging vine. Our churches are shrinking, and our reputation is mud with the wider world – they think we are immoral in our vitriol and our intolerance. They see us as less moral than non-Christians, as moralistic and manipulative and controlling.
And they’re right. Our churches are segregated, even today. Our divorce rate is no better than the non-religious. Spousal abuse still lingers, and in some cases is even tolerated. And our advice to abused women is often dangerously, even fatally wrongheaded.
You can proof-text me all you want, but homosexuals are not the ones degrading our nation’s culture. We are, with our arrogance, our lingering racism, our commercialism and consumerism.
We build multi-million dollar churches, yet leave the poorest of the world (who often need things like $18 mosquito nets and $25 vaccinations) and the poor and homeless in our own cities to fend for themselves.
We keep spending money to prop up dying churches that exist only because a few elderly people don’t want to find a new church, but which are doing nothing for the community, spiritually or materially. We spend ungodly sums on “faith-based extravaganzas” on Easter, Christmas, and Halloween (“scare them to salvation with Hell House!”). And all the while, like Dives, we watch the poor man starving at our gate.
We degrade our name, and our nation, when we let our political leanings dictate our theology. Case in point: it’s no secret that the Southern Baptists are going whole-hog for Mitt Romney.
But when I was growing up, Southern Baptists considered Mormonism a “cult.” Some still do. Oops, never mind. He’s backing Romney now. So, which is it? The answer no one will give you is this: “it doesn’t matter, as long as he dislodges that black pro-death, pro-gay, liberal socialist we’ve got now.”
We bring shame on our name and Christ’s through our sexism and incredible insensitivity to the realities of women’s lives. You can proof-text me all you want, but the truth remains: when you pre-determine a woman’s role in life based on her gender, you take away her right to follow the Holy Spirit’s guidance, you take away her Imago Dei, and you make her less than human.
Who should we obey, God or Men? The reality of complementarianism, as it is often preached, is this: Only men get to obey God. Women obey men, and access God through the male spiritual heads – first their fathers, and then their husbands. But I think we all know the right answer to the question, both for men and for women I think the answer is clear [Acts 5:29]. We obey God, not men.