America suffers from an epidemic of obesity. Ask anyone.
But America also suffers from a pandemic of body-hate, shame, and self-loathing.
Ask anyone who’s tried to lose weight, or worse, lost it only to regain it.
Why the obesity epidemic? There are so many possible explanations:
- the wider availability of high-quality food,
- the end of hunger (though not necessarily malnutrition) in the industrialized world,
- more sedentary lives,
- high-fructose corn syrup,
- video games,
- a downward cycle of yo-yo dieting, etc.
Why the self-loathing pandemic? There are just as many possible explanations:
- the sheer fact of our increasing weight
- media idols held up as impossible ideals
- relentless messages from media, friends, family
All these play a part, I’m sure. But this is America, and I think we all know the #1 reason we hate our bodies so much. There is a lot of money in selling hate. $60 billion a year, according to Marketdata Enterprises.
As Christians, we realize that all people are the image-bearers of God. That all people are loved by God, loved to the point that he emptied Himself of His glory and power, walked on earth, and even died for us.
You and I are part of “all people.” You and I are loved that much, by that awesome of a God.
So why do we hate ourselves so much? That hatred does not come from above.
I am hesitant to call things Satanic, but self-loathing is, and those who spread or profit from it for any reason should be ashamed of themselves. Its fires burn in every skeletal anorexic, every compulsive eater, every cutter, every suicide.
What does that mean for our bodies? I think we owe it to ourselves, and maybe even to God, to try to keep ourselves in good health. And that includes not only illness but physical fitness. I have reached a point in my life when I have fallen far short of this goal. I must struggle to strengthen my body, and resist the things that weaken me. Fortunately, it isn’t always hardship.
But the driving force that leads us to care for our bodies should be love. It should not be Hollywood, magazines, or the advertising machine of the diet and weight-loss industry. And our goals should not be to look like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie. Vanity is no virtue, and envy is a poor motivator.
And most of all, we should learn to see ourselves as God sees us, to love our own bodies as they are, “fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14) … not as they will be “after I lose 20 (or 50, or 100) pounds.”
And all of us can learn to close our ears to the malevolent, avaricious cacophony of advertisers, to gracefully throw off our body-shame, our self-loathing, and to let God’s love flow through our bodies … even if they weigh 350 pounds.